If you're heading to a baby shower or planning one yourself, you're in the right place. From what a baby shower actually is, to what to wear, what to expect, and the best baby shower gifts—consider this your go-to guide.
At TOTTIE, we believe style and practicality should go hand in hand—especially when it comes to parenting. So whether you’re shopping for the perfect baby shower gift or looking to feel your best as the mum-to-be, we’ve got you covered
What Is a Baby Shower?
A baby shower is a celebration thrown in honour of an expecting parent—usually during the third trimester of pregnancy. It’s a chance for friends and family to shower the parent-to-be with love, gifts, advice, and a little (or a lot of) cake.
Modern baby showers range from casual backyard gatherings to chic restaurant lunches. Whether it’s co-ed, themed, or low-key, the goal is the same: to support the parents-to-be and get excited about the new arrival.
What to Wear to a Baby Shower
The vibe of the baby shower will often determine what you wear, but generally, it’s a daytime event that calls for polished casual.
For guests:
- Think soft colours, breezy fabrics, and something that works for sitting, standing, and posing for pics.
- Midi dresses, linen sets, or wide-leg pants with a cute top are all great options.
For the mum-to-be:
- Comfort is key. Flowy dresses, wrap styles, or a bump-friendly jumpsuit will help you feel relaxed and radiant.
- Don’t forget easy-to-wear shoes—you’ll likely be on your feet quite a bit!
What to Bring to a Baby Shower
Wondering what makes a great baby shower gift? The best presents are thoughtful, functional, and stylish enough to last well beyond the newborn phase.
Top Baby Shower Gift Ideas:
A sleek, structured tote that doubles as a designer handbag and a practical nappy bag. Our TOTTIE nappy bags are made with parents in mind—featuring wipeable interiors, clever compartments, and timeless style.
Compact, padded, and easy to clean. These make nappy changes on the go a breeze—and every parent will thank you for it.
Small but mighty. Pram clips are the kind of genius accessory that gets used every day. Perfect for hanging a nappy bag, a shopping tote, or your go-to coffee.
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Baby Bag Organisers & Accessories
Add a luxe wet bag, bottle holder, or matching pouch to complete your gift. These little extras make parenting life so much easier.
TIP: Wrap your gift in a reusable tote or wet bag for bonus points in style and sustainability.
What Happens at a Baby Shower?
Every baby shower is different, but most include a mix of:
- Fun games – Think “Guess the baby food,” “What’s in the nappy bag,” or heartfelt advice cards.
- Gift opening – A chance to oooh and ahhh over tiny clothes and thoughtful presents.
- Food & drinks – From sweet spreads to grazing platters and mocktails, food is always a highlight.
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Connection – The most beautiful part of a baby shower is the chance for friends and family to connect and share the joy of the upcoming arrival.
Planning a Baby Shower?
If you're hosting, here are a few quick tips:
- Choose a theme that suits the mum-to-be (don’t overcomplicate it!)
- Create a baby gift registry to help guests choose meaningful gifts
- Keep it light, loving, and full of laughs
The Best Baby Shower Gifts Live Here
Looking for something truly special to gift at the next baby shower? TOTTIE's collection of baby shower-friendly essentials are as beautiful as they are useful.
Stylish nappy bags, baby change mats, pram clips, and more—everything is designed to support the new parent through babyhood and beyond.
